Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Cheers for all women out there.. Be strong

Today to work I saw and experienced one weird situation , was driving at my everyday way to work , listening to my music , then I noticed that there is two cars in front of me is messing around a blue jeep full of boys or you can name them ass holes , and a girl unveiled driving a red car , they was throwing at her garbage from the can , and taking pictures of her , with her trying to escape I monitored closely what’s happening and all of the sudden they hit the girls car from the back , my blood pressure boiled , I felt an adrenaline rush all over my body , I speeded , I was I was in the middle then I took a drift with me stopping the jeep car . for a second I thought they could kill me then I said fuck it, I went out side the car I told them “what is your matter you people” the girl stopper her car and came standing next to me shoulder by shoulder look at them Eye to Eye , people who saw what was happening came running all the way after us stopped and they started saying bad words and then the crowd started fighting with them .. Guess what they went to the car and ran with there cars.. The girl thanked me and said they would have killed me... Thanks and she hugged me and asking for my number for us to be friends...   Yes we are women who are entitled to be fragile, but we are not weak we can stand and look fear in the eye,

I knew a long time ago that I am a feminist, but never was in a situation where I can fight for another women right. She is un veiled that’s something she chosen and no one has the right to do any harm to her because she Is not covering her hair... she could be better than million veiled ones.. Every woman should feel safe in what ever proper thing she is wearing and society has to accept it. Men have to stop treating women as a sexual organ..

No man has the strength to look a inside a women eye ; he betrayed or even done any thing bad to her, they got no strength to do so.. They got no power to say sorry, even when they know they mistaken a big time...
Cheers for all women out there.. Be strong, always stand and look to fear in the eye..

I will share a story i love my self

A little boy asked his mother, “Why are you crying?”
“Because I need to” she said.
… … “I don’t understand,” he said.
His mother just hugged him and said, “And you never will.”
Later the little boy asked his father, “Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?”
“All women cry for no reason,” his dad answered carelessly.
The little boy, still wondering why women cry, finally asked the old wise shaikh (scholar). “He surely knows the answer”, he thought.
“Ya Shaikh! Why do women cry so easily?”
The Shaikh answered:
“When Allah made the woman she had to be special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
He gave an inner strength to endure both childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.
He gave her a toughness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her badly.
He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers.
You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is her piety and must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart – the place where love resides.”
“This world is just temporary conveniences, and the best comfort in this world is a righteous women.”
-(Sahih Muslim )

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