Its Not Nagging its curiosity !!!:$:)

Yesterday I ended the day with an un-happy phone call ,I woke up today asking my self , “ Nermeen , is your way wrong ” I looked at my self at the mirror and I said “YES HUNNY BUNNY , YOU ARE EXTERMLY WRONG  ”wanted to hide " 5abennny " :) . I drove all the way to work recapping on the call I had took roles as if I am watching the conversation on a TV or hearing it on the radio... I have to confuse now that I was so pushing, asking so many questions the person I was talking to was polite thank god he didn’t curse my name J he even wanted to sleep and I kept on talking and talking as it was in the middle on the morning...

I went to work , now at my desk writing my morning blog , I thought about why don’t you read something about how to talk to someone on the phone effectively as I hated that I kept asking him things that was annoying and the person didn’t want to talk about .. How embarrassing I feel but at the same time; never say to women I will talk to you later on the X matter “she won’t stop wondering” she is a woman, and we all made of emotions and we love conversations, we love to talk and listen and we think we can fix the universe come on !!!! be clever while communicating with women. But I have to admit it..  I was terrible.

I love reading something interesting in the morning before opening my work mail so I went to Google and I wrote “ how to talk effectively to men on the phone ” I read a lot of articles , blogs and I concluded that for a women to talk to a man she have to consider the following :-

·         You cannot talk to men the way you talk to other women

Women are almost always ready to share at any time. If you woke your girlfriend up at three in the morning to tell her the details of your fight with your boyfriend, she could tune into what you are saying in about five seconds. Conversely, if you woke your boyfriend, father, brother any male you know up to tell him anything important, would be jolted, disoriented, and a little mad. He would need twenty minutes to regroup and hear what you are saying.

·         SECRET #1: Don't approach men for conversation when they are not in an approach mode. Give them time and opportunity to be able to listen to you. They want to be there for you and give you what you need, but you have to understand that they need to have distractions removed, time to focus on the conversation, and a clear and defined understanding of what you want from them.

·         SECRET #2: Don't misinterpret the silent male or underestimate how much you mean to him. He is highly vulnerable to you.

One other deadly true thing I read was on survey the question was “ why does men hate speaking on the phone one of the answer that really made me laugh was the following “Because we are simple... It is frustrating when women think we are some super complex people just because they are. We are not. When I come home from work, I don't want a 3 year old jumping in my face, I don't want a woman bombarding me with questions, I don't want anything except 20 freaking minutes to collect my thoughts and relax. But to a women that's every reason to them to be self conscious and think of every single bad thing it could be why we are not talking. If you are having a conversation with a man, and he is not talking, don't make your brain explode thinking of excuses being about you why he isn't talking, just start a conversation that tries to pique his interest. ”

Hahahahahahah JJJ that exactly what I did yesterday after the call ended I kept thinking of every single bad thing that could be why we are not talking.

If you want to see more answers on the survey bellow is the website:

http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1043703

we women like to chat , talk and analyses things we always jump to conclusion , men are different we could be out all day at work then go do some exercise at the gym and still have power to talk but men after a day working they like going home hibernating for a while we are different but we’d have to work around so we can have some peace .. Sorrry for nagging all night :$ but i didn't mean it ..

Don’t forget to smile J

I Hate Cancer !!

On my way to work , I usually like to smile and keep greeting everyone I see with a smile since it’s a new morning , new hope, new sun ,  new you and I always say to self god gave you a chance to live for one more day so don’t blew It off , don’t screw someone’s life , if you have the ability to make someone smile just do , if you have go the power to heel someone’s heart and wands will be great from you , I am a type of person that hide my real sadness and put on a smile . When I feel sad I just go for a long run to forget about everything.

I always try to enjoy the little things and I always say to myself those little things one day when you look back you may realize that they were really the big things

 I lost this weekend a second father, a human that so tender and lovable he use to church me with his words and he always talk on how he likes my figure and my personality he always gave me those encouraging words, he loved that I am not shallow and he always says “Nemo is a women with dreams and you can’t mess with a women that knows what she wants and what she is capable off”. He was diagnosed of a lunge and bone cancer, I fucken hate this dieses it have broken my heart already more than twice before. I’ll miss this man as long as I live, God bless his soul.

I hate thus dieses,

I can remember how I felt when my father was diagnosed with prostate cancer; it was a shocking moment I couldn’t sleep for months,  I used to sleep crying wake up crying feeling that I can’t help it , had to smile and say to him its okay Daddy while me scared to death inside , and when he started taking chemo after surgery recovery it was so painful that he used to scream and I was their holding his hand saying hold on daddy the session is about to finish my heart at that moment was pumping as if I was on a marathon for ages . But I fucken had to be strong. I was their wishing me on that bed with his needle in my vain instead of him.

I can remember how it felt when my grandma was diagnosed with breast cancer and they had to make cut it completely, I was a little but I still remember how scared I felt inside imaging a woman with one breast side. Now as young women in the beginning on my twenties I am so afraid to death that one day it could happen to me. I am not afraid from cancer it self I am so afraid with the pain I might leave with people who loves me.  

Every family has a member that suffered or suffering from cancer, very heart breaking.

There is a quote that I have read before I don’t remember who wrote it said “Cancer can take away all of my physical abilities. It cannot touch my mind, it cannot touch my heart, and it cannot touch my soul”.

Fighting terrorism is not unlike fighting a deadly cancer. It can't be treated just where it's visible - every diseased cell in the body must be destroyed. ~David Hackworth
I have to admit, like so many women, I always knew there was a chance. But like so many women, I never thought it would be me. I never thought I'd hear those devastating words: 'You have breast cancer.' ~Debbie Wasserman Schultz

I have personal advice for everyone feeling sad , hopeless , worried , confused , puzzled “ its not worth it ”  smile because there is a million reason to do so, laugh because you have to , if you choose to cry its up to you . i will choose to accept what God gives, I will obey to what he takes , I’ll thank you every minute , I will not waste myself feeling sad . I will move my feet toward the way My God will lead me to.

Don’t forget to smile

HE DOES NOT CARE ENOUGH

Men and women, they are totally different, we think different we love different we care different, and here comes the disappointment, I could be out with someone I like and I am happy all day long and every thing went just fine, but for example he could forget to call to check that I drove safe I will jump to one conclusion “HE DOES NOT CARE ENOUGH “.. Even if the other part of my brain think differently but I will still feel down , and would set all the night feeling dissatisfied , angry and feeling all alone . Men don’t get this we women demand small things that really count you can say its silly, but it’s just the way we feel; we need to feel loved and cared for , and don’t pretend because we defiantly got the higher senses and we feel what’s going inside your brain.

Wondering how you can show someone in your life that you care about them? Here are a few suggestions that may help you do just that all from the web and as women I highly recommend.

1.      Do NOT flirt with other girls AT ANY TIME; if you do you're on thin ice: She's bound to find out, you'll lack purpose in your relationship and you'll hate yourself for your nasty behavior.

Besides it means you're not loyal to your girl or your relationship with her. Most girls will view it as cheating and you just might lose her, and it'll serve you right. Don't be stupid, value what you have and know

2.      Tell her she's beautiful and mean it. Compliment her not only on her looks, but also on her accomplishments, talents and abilities. Always be sincere.

3.      Don't ever let her suffer from back-seat syndrome. Granted, you might have very close female friends who have been around longer. But if you appear to enjoy spending more time with them than your girlfriend - and she has noticed - she may be suffering from what girls call 'back seat syndrome'. Think: how would you like it if she preferred hanging out with guy friends to you? What if she hung out with her guy friend alone? What if she was constantly texting other guys in your company? If she starts to mention that she is feeling second-place, change your attitude quickly but tell nobody.

4.      Don't texts them in her company, and let her know that you prefer spending time with her than other girls? Like you would with other guys, she will naturally begin to assume they are not threat. Don't lie to her; you should genuinely enjoy spending time with your girl. If you are attracted to one of your female friends, it is a good idea to cut the communication short, be friendly but cut it clean; it is highly likely your girlfriend will notice, girls have many ways to know and boys are so basic and ultimately she will start to consider how loyal you are to her.

5.      Do It, Don’t Say It. You know that old common wisdom, “Actions speak louder than words”? Well, it’s true. While you can apologize for not doing something until you’re blue in the face, you’ll gain so much more appreciation by another in your life by simply doing it in the first place. Yes, it means you have to work harder to keep on top of things to begin with, even with simple things like being their, calling for no reason, checking on her every once a while.

6.       Refuse to Argue and Pick Your Battles. Arguments are a constant source of relationship strife, even amongst family members or friends. You may say, “How can I just stop arguing?” Easy, because engaging in a conversation with another person is a choice we make (whether we always do so consciously or not). Make a conscious effort to note when you’re entering into an argument, and then just stop. Remember, not every argument is worth engaging in — so don’t feel like you have to get into an argument just because someone else is asking for one. “Sorry, I can’t talk about this right now, let’s talk more about this later…” or “You’re right, I’m wrong, I’m sorry” will put a sudden halt to the argument. This leads us to…

7.      Be confident. Be proud of being her boyfriend. There are appropriate times and places for affection. Kissing and intimate touching does not usually go over well in public. But don't be too shy to hold her hand in public because you shouldn't be ashamed that she's yours. She will love it when you walk by her friends and they see how good her boy friend is.

8.      Share your everyday events and thoughts with your girl. Being open and communicative makes her feel like you want her in your life. On the same note, listen to her advice even if you don't agree, force yourself to listen and to see the good of her reasoning. Keep an open ear and an open mind.

9.      Apologize Often, Even If you’re not wrong. Why should you apologize even if you’re not “wrong?” Well, it depends on your point of view. Is being “right” more important to you than your loved one’s feelings? Is being “right” something you’ll be proud of when you’re on your deathbed “Well, hell, I may have caused her a world of hurt, but at least she knew who was right!”

Apologies are simple, free, and entirely within your world of control. Handing them out just as freely and easily will, in the long-run, make you feel better and also make your loved ones feel better. It shows you care more about them rather than winning any particular (all-too-often, silly) argument. (As with all things, when taken to an extreme, this is also not particularly healthy behavior, but do know when to pick your battles.

10.  Listen to her. The number one complaint many women have regarding men is that they don't listen. Even if you're not particularly interested in what she's saying, listen, and then acknowledge that you were listening. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about anything! Be there for her through thick and thin. She will feel comfortable with you and trust you

11.  Do Something Unexpected.

Most people love a surprise, especially when that surprise is something that helps them or makes their life a little bit easier, if just for a minute. It could be as simple as a card to show appreciation “Just because,” or offering to watch the kids one night when it wasn’t your turn. It could be saying, “Hey, I’ll cook dinner tonight” or “Hey, I’ll take out the trash,” and then just doing it. Even simple actions can speak volumes, especially if the other person has had an especially difficult day. Imagine if it were your night to cook but you’ve had an especially difficult, stressful day. Your significant other knows this, and offers to cook instead. It’s a great expression of caring, even when it may seem too obvious or simple.

12.  Don't start getting lazy about how you look just because you think she's yours. Continue trying to impress her because she might just lose interest if you begin to slack off. Look smart for you and for her!

13.  Remember important dates. This is a big deal with women. Birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones are all opportunities to show her how special she is to you

14.   Sharing is Caring. Sound trite? You bet it does, but guess what, it’s also true. It’s so much easier to eat the last cookie, or to get a glass of water just for you. But it shows you care when you offer someone else the last cookie or ask the other person if there’s anything you can get them while you’re up. Simple acts of kindness are the ones we so easily overlook in everyday life. Yet they speak volumes to others in our lives.

15.  Wake Every Morning with An Appreciation for The Other Person. Being grateful for the people and things in our lives is one of the simplest ways to achieve a sense of daily happiness. You don’t have to engage in huge displays of love or affection. Simple actions, like saying, “I love you” or packing someone’s favorite lunch may be all that’s needed. Often time, living with someone day in and day out can breed a certain familiarity (or, as the old saying goes, “contempt”). Keep that in mind, acting in a manner consistent with someone who loves another, not someone who is keeping silent score. Even if your partner never knows it, it’s a way of showing you care that can be just as important as any outward, direct display.

16.  Make sure you spend enough time with her to show her how much you care, and to make your relationship grow.

Lastly, if you want her to be yours forever, let her know you're there for her when she needs you, and most importantly make her feel loved, special, safe and protected. Your woman wants to be your queen so treat her as such and you'll glide happily along.

Women you gotta stop expecting him to be a mind reader, because he won’t, the following is some tips for women to do to have an idea about How to Talk to Your Partner About What You Don’t Like Without Starting World War III ,

Separate Your Partner from What He Does

Often, when we don’t like something our partner is doing, we criticize him as a person.  Instead of telling him you don’t like that he leaves his dirty dishes on the counter, you tell him he’s selfish and uncaring.

The key to talking to your partner about what you don’t like is to separate your partner’s behavior from who she is as a person.

 Share Doing Wants

“Doing Wants” is what you would specifically like to see your partner doing. Tell your partner what you would like to see them do or say. “Doing Wants” are not used to tell your partner to change his insides (intentions, thoughts, feelings).

This is like the famous line “I want you to WANT to do the dishes”.   That won’t work.  Just tell him you want him to do the dishes.

Again stick to what you want them to specifically DO that you could see or hear.

So, if you’re thinking “I want my partner to give me more attention” then get specific. What would giving you more attention look like to you? How can your partner DO “more attention”? Then let your partner know these specific actions.

Example:

“When I come home from work, I would like it if you would shut off the television, give me a kiss and say something like “any ideas for dinner honey” in a loving tone of voice.”

One important thing to remember is that “Doing Wants” are merely requests. You are telling your partner what you like and what works for you. That doesn’t necessarily mean she will be able to, or even want to, do it.  “Doing Wants” are best delivered in with a non-demanding and loving attitude.

Don’t forget to smile, hope you like the Blog  

Thank You !

Every Morning has a new beginning a new blessing, a new hope. It’s a perfect day coz its god’s gift. Have a blessed hopeful perfect day and always remember to say thank you God for every thing. Good Morning!!

When I wake up everyday I take a few minutes after I open my eyes and say “ thank you “ , I put my leg on the floor and I say thank you , I walk to the door and say thank you , I go to fix a cup of coffee and say thank you I brush my hair and say thank you ..

I never was like this , I used to be very angry when I don’t have what I want , I used to ask God why , but one day I really had a few amount of money as I always finch all my salary on books , coffee and shopping and i never had a saving mindset or I was never good on controlling my expenses , that day I was so angry so frustrated why the hell am I taking this salary I should take X amount I am skilled I am a baldy hard worker I always do the donkey work ;

 I was in a grocery shop getting things for my mom , two married couple they looked approximately in there early thirties , the lady was  holding a checklist and the guy was saying “ darling we will pass the 200pounds” we will only have 300 for the rest of the month what if someone of us got sick , then she replied back saying I want an old Roma cheese he replied saying “ next month I promise we will get it ” she said “ yes you are right we mustn’t pass the budget ” and she smiled back and said “Thank god”, for a while I was shocked that they are only living with 500 pounds and I am way more than that and I have never worried about being hungry one day and I never ever felt I was craving for something and couldn’t get . for a seconds I was completely frozen out of shame from that day I kept saying thank you , thank you without one day of feeling dissatisfied , and if things goes wrong I say thank you , if things go right I say thank you . And I will never forget the smile on the lady face.

Sometimes when my friends talk to me about there problems I just say to them don’t exaggerate, God won’t give you a problem that you can’t handle. sometimes they say to me you don’t have problem , I do have million reason to make me down feeling awful , but I won’t live that way . I will not waste my time being angry on things I won’t solve. I’ll try my best , if I hate something I’ll change it , if I love something I will give it my best and protect it that how I make up my mind .

And there is an amazing saying that when even I get stressed I repeat in my mind “ when you find yourself stressed , ask yourself one question  : will this matter in 5 years from now ? , if yes , then do something about the situation , if no then let it go” Said by Catherine Pulsifer

You have to know that there are no classes in life for beginners; right away you are always asked to deal with what is most difficult.

Never Forget to put on a smile it will annoy enough people …

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Do you know the day when you wake up in the morning and finds everything against you , tooth paste buzzed on my face when I was squeezing it , i went to check on my dog at the balcony I stepped over his poop , I went to make coffee there where no coffee in the jar .. I will try to smile , I had a worst drive to work ever , the bus driver was going to drive over my poor baby car , and the poor me screaming at the asshole to look at his F#$*#N mirror ,

When I reached the company gate I took a deep breath and said I’ll have a good day..

Went up to my office with my manager earlier than he normally come and he looked at his watch and said “Impressive, do you always come at this time ” I looked at my watch I was only 10 minutes late I said to my self “ give me break ” . Then I opened my email with Microsoft web automated message saying “hey stupid I am full” .. I had no power to delete mails , again with my manager “ IS THERE PROBLEM IN YOUR MAIL ” I replied back “ I dunno with a stupid smile on my face ” I fixed the blady thing ..

Wonders why you have to be nice to people when you really just want to throw rocks at them

But you know what I am tired being a women

I am tired of all my girl friends that waste my time on there hormone problems , if they are in relationship they complain they got no enough care and that they are not satisfied and if there are not they are complaining that they got no problems why there is no enough love and care in there life .

And MY GOD if they are married “my man use to call me every single minute when we are not together now I set all day long and they never ask if I am alive”. I say to my self at this specific moment “BECAUSE POOR HIM HE SAW YOU ENOUGH AT THE HONEY MOON, AND HIS PAYCHECK AND DEBIT CARD ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU”.

It was said before “As lovers, the difference between men and women is that women can love all day long, but men only at times.” ― W. Somerset Maugham

Oh when they are trying to lose weight every calorie they lost they want to hear “oh you lost dozens”, “Oh you are working hard” even if you can barley see a different...

Some times I wake up in the morning I don’t feel as going into the business clothes and the heels that sometimes make me feel I am standing on a pencil, and I don’t want to put on make up to hide that I didn’t have enough sleep and look like a drunk, i don’t want to put on a smile to look good.. Do you get this or I am the only on this plant..

Its very hard being a women, we smile and say we are fine when we are about to cry heavily a rain, we cry when we are F##*EN happy, we never say that we love the guy we love unless he with another girl, we get mad on small stuff that actually not sensitive or hurtful, and the thing that hurts we just take no consideration off. When our car broke we’d have to act hopeless for my muscle to come rescue us even we know what exactly to be done but we just have to be very delicate to be feminine and for the man to feel a man .. Bullshit!!!!

I am so sorry for those chikes : who act dam for the guy to give them a helping hand , who can’t change her own car wheels with her own hands , who doesn’t support her self financially , who can’t say NO , who spent her life at the beauty center . Who have to be broken because that shows she is delicate.

Women have to have something to live for something to love its not always how she looks The most beautiful makeup of a woman is passion. But cosmetics are easier to buy.

She have to learn how to support her self , how to emotionally raise her self up when every body and all the conditions are putting her down

“When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier.” ― Diane Von Furstenberg

Don’t forget to smile

xxx

Whats Love !?

Here I am finally I am up early , ran to kitchen switched on the boiler with out checking if it has water or not … guuuuuhh !!! I do this all the time a huge noises was out of the boiler calling    HEY STUPID I AM OUT OF WATER.. Added some water. opened the fridge and took the bottle of milk no one was around so the evil voice in me said take a sip and put it back with me opening the bottle with my mom saying “ ARE YOU GOING TO DRINK FROM THIS “ . I replied back “ noooooooooo you gotta be kidding I hate this bad attitude with my mom tone of voice back to normal ; good morning Nemo’s , morning mom .. J J

Thank god I said to my self she I wasn’t caught she would have lectured me on women behavior and I’d be late to work..  

Took my good quality of coffee that I made with love and went to my room My Coffee smelled great , OH I love coffee if they give me enough coffee I’d rule the world .

Was driving and listening to songs and weird the radio channel was only playing this 30 minutes drive to work songs about love I think the dude in the radio station was saying sorry for someone ,

Anyways, I was listening to a song that says “I never knew what love till I knew you then he was saying darling I don’t know how to express my love to you “ Remark : It was in Arabic , my comment was YOU ASSHOLE YOU NEVER KNEW LOVE UNLESS YOU MET HER AND NOW YOU CAN’T TELL WHAT LOVE IS .

And I asked my self what love; I switched off the radio and said lets list them:-

1-    Love is being stupid together

2-    Love knows you can’t stand sleep next to someone every single day and because you want them you accept the idea.

3-    Love is sharing your chocolate.

4-    Love is when you make them coffee and test first to make sure it taste just the way they liked it.

5-     Love is the metaphysical gravity: what does that suppose to mean metaphysical is Preternatural or supernatural.

6-    Love is the power to see similarity in the dissimilar.

7-    Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.

8-    Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.

9-    Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.

10- Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.

There is endless sayings and endless ideas and endless meaning about love , if you have it protect it , if you looking for it you have to hope to find it , if you break it you can fix it , if it makes you happy church It , if it makes you miserable change it .. the game keys in your hand we are happy and sad as we think we are … Good morning world and don’t forget to smile ..

Don't forget to smile :)

Opened my eyes I missed my alarm with 30 minutes , I looked at the window it was shinning I looked again on the alarm “Shit , I am late ” , you know its going to be a long day when you say this word , running out of the bed with my little puppy happy kissing my feet “ katty ,, #### OFFF” I said , done everything I should do dressed in a matter of seconds , made my coffee and here I am at my car , switched on the engine waiting 2 minutes as people say don’t just switch it on and go ,took a sip of coffee and guess what the cup cover wasn’t closed properly so “ IT’S ALL ON MY JEANS  ” and because I am lucky I am wearing a light off white jeans that I rarely wear .. Switched of the engine with a disappointment on my face, went back to home I changed and back again to the car “screw the 2 minutes engine heating up its 8:45 and I should be in the other part of Egypt 9:30  ... counted to 10 to calm down,,, 15 minutes afterward I am looking at the little lamb in front of me saying “hey stupid, you are running out of oil  ” …. I cursed the day then I said I’d go to the gas station, 1^st gas station, sorry no petrol for today, Second one sorry only benzene 95 I said ok!!! Even my car doesn’t deserve but no other option,,

I normally pass on a bus stop where there is always a police man that always say GOOD MORINING to me , he smiled and said “ have a good morning lady ” he made me smile .. I love when people remember my face especially complete strangers that I always greet , call it crazyesness but it just draw a smile on my face and other’s too so I don’t care ..

Its 9:22 I am speeding up another bus station near my work there is always a guy who is standing with tissues paper and air freshener that greet me every single day in my way to work saying “ My god guide your way ” I smile and wave to him , strange !! He don’t know me.. That’s the power of good morning and a priceless smile..

I am already late, so I swiched on the radio, and my favorite song was on for Adele I was singing with her “ I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited , but I couldn’t stay away I could fight it .. .. oh oh oh  … I had hoped you face and that you’d be reminded that for me it isn’t over , Never mind I’ll find someone like you .. oh .oohhh ohh , looking next me 4 guys in a car next to me is staring with my hands on the window button and I promptly closed it .. then they kept waiving and chasing me for 50 mts and they finally went in another way ,,, I have to stop singing .. 9:41 I checked in the work .. What ever!! Hopefully the rest of the month I’d try to be more punctual with my time ..

I wish I can be on top of the people working in my field which is logistics –textile management I’ll try to do my best to learn and excel in my work

My formula for living is quite simple. I get up in the morning and I go to bed at night. In between, I occupy myself as best I can

Hoping that id’ have a better day than yesterday, hopefully tomorrow with bring joy.. I want to learn a new thing from my working day even if its little but I want every day to count, I want to build a strong career path.. Its my second blog and I am enjoying writing it.. As writing is one of my favorite hobby, for any one on the plant any where reading this .. Please put on a little smile.. And always never let any one on earth screw your morning..

Learn to love everything around you, if you don’t like it change it , if you like it stick to it , quite simple .. but just stop complaining ..

The quote for today : (Love. Fall in love and stay in love. Write only what you love, and love what you write. The key word is love. You have to get up in the morning and write something you love, something to live for) Ray Bradbury